80>20 Rule

Are you down: 80/ 20 rule-?

People always think and wonder about what life brings them. You go through so much but for what reason exactly?
You start asking yourself all types of questions like why can’t I pass this damn test, or where did Hell did all my Money go to so fast when I just got paid last week, and many more.
Lately, the biggest questions being asked are about a boyfriend/girlfriend or about that person you have a crush on. You have girls are asking questions like:

“where are all if any good men go”

“why is he doing this and that to me if he’s suppose to love me”

“Why can’t I just find the right one for me?”.

Then there are the guys, asking questions like,

“Why are you always nagging me?”

“Why are you getting so emotional?”

There’s so much that a girl or guy wants, but seem to never find or get what they want.

Some Saturdays’ ago, I went to go see, “Why did I get married,” and found myself relating to certain parts and happenings from the movie.

If you have not seen it yet, go for yourself or for your girlfriend/boyfriend. It'll shed some light onto issues that present themselves in relationships, it'll be good for you both. Out of all the themes, issues, and guidance that the movie gives, the biggest one for me was the 80/20 Rule.

Let’s break it down this 80/20 rule….

In relationships, you will only get about 80% of what you want and need. That 80 can be a variety of things. It can be what you have now, or what you might have just ended your relationship with, or even what you just want. The question you need to ask yourself is, do I have it? or not at all?. The problem is that it’s usually after the break up where one may realize that they were really getting that 80% but just didn’t realize it. After being single for a little while, you may come across another male or female who might seem like they are the one (AT FIRST) for you. It is then that you realize that this new person is only giving you 20% of what you really want, and that you left 80% behind.

I’m not saying stay and wait forever to find out if you’re getting that 80%, but just think real hard about what you’re not getting. If there is more good than bad, that should tell you something. If there are more happy than sad times should also make you think about things. So take it is, think a little, and don’t stress yourself. That one is out there. Just let it come to you. I leave you with this African Proverb, "When searching for your mate look with both eyes, so you can look for exactly what you want. When you find that person, close one eye". In other words, after you decide that you've found that person, understand that you will need to compromise and not dwell on the 20% of things that might upset you.

Rule for the day...80>20....

(Survey)

So……have you found your 80?

1. Yes

2. No

3. Not sure

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